WHAT'S IN A NAME?

David J. Robb

June 26, 2005

 

There is an ancient story contained in the narratives of the Book of Genesis in the Hebrew Bible that we call the story of The Tower of Babel.  It begins like this:

Now the whole earth had one language and few words. And as men migrated east they found a plain in the land of Shinar and settled there. And they said to one another, "Come let us make bricks and burn them thoroughly." And they had brick for stone and bitumen for mortar. Then they said, "Come let us build ourselves a city, and a tower with its top in the heavens, and let us make a name for ourselves, lest we be scattered abroad upon the face of the earth."

In the story they do just that. But when God observes what they have accomplished He is alarmed and says, "Behold they are one people and they have all one language. This is only the beginning of what they will do, and nothing will be impossible for them."

To prevent this from happening God confuses their language and scatters the people over the whole earth.  One of the purposes of such a myth is to explain the way things are. In this case at the most basic level it offers an explanation for the complicated phenomenon of linguistics, and why there have developed so many different languages. But on another level, the story reaches deeper and offers an explanation for the seemingly endless conflicts between human beings as well.

Taken one way, the story parallels the ancient Greek myth of Prometheus. It makes it appear that God is jealous of human creativity and technology and punishes men for their accomplishments. Looked at from another perspective, however, the story actually celebrates human creativity and ingenuity, but also warns that it is that very capacity that tempts human beings to believe they are invincible, that there is, as the story puts it "nothing that they propose to do that will be impossible for them." That is to say, human creativity is one thing, but pride is another; and it is pride that leads men and women to overreach their appropriate limits, to begin to believe themselves invincible and to assume god-like unlimited powers. 

And so the story develops around two separate poles:  "Come, let us make bricks, and burn them thoroughly"— that is the essence of technology and human creativity.  But also, "Come, let us build a tower with its top in the heavens, and let us make a name for ourselves"—that is the essence of pride and human overreaching. In those two simple formulas the story lays bare the tragic element in all human freedom. Gifted with the capacity for freedom, like the Creator, we have the capacity to use that freedom to both create and to destroy. And the story even suggests what might be the motive that distinguishes one from the other. Whenever humans set out to "make a name for ourselves," we inevitably begin to assert power over other people.  That is the beginning of how we lose our soul.

We are becoming more and more aware how this happens not only to individuals but to a whole people, to nations as well.  For most of its history America has been a beacon of hope for the way it developed democratic institutions that demonstrated how a nation could ensure basic human rights and freedoms within a framework of law and justice. We have never been perfect, and at many times we have not lived up to our ideals. But time and again we have lurched in the direction of justice. And for most of our history we have combined strength with restraint and respect for the rights of others in the pursuit of national goals. And for most of our history we have been content to live within a constitutional framework, albeit a somewhat clumsy and difficult ship to steer with all its checks and balances, that appeared to afford the best possible approximation of justice.

But, in the aftermath of September 11, all of that seems to have changed. And so rapidly has change occurred, that we are still dazzled and somewhat confused. At one time the name "America" stood for "a nation of laws, not men." At one time the name "America" stood both for generosity and for advocacy of human rights.  At one time the name "America" stood both for power and the restraint of that power.  But since the end of the Cold War, and especially since September 11, most of the rest of the world has begun to see us as a nation on a crusade to "make a name for ourselves" by extending our power to every nook and cranny of the globe.

"We're number one," we are fond of cheering.  But there is precious little of human value of which America can still say it is a genuine leader.  At one time we led the world in humanitarian aide to other countries, but not any more. We lag far behind most other industrialized nations in the extent of health care our citizens can afford. Our infant mortality rates are embarrassing in the midst of such wealth. Of course we are number one in the world in the per capita rate of obesity; we're still number one in the amount of money spent on luxury items. We are the leader in consumption of the world's dwindling reserves of oil—25% of it every year. We are first in the allocations we make to military expenditures—more than virtually all of the rest of the world combined. We lead the world in military bases—969 in the United states alone, and 725 around the globe at last count (but that does not include numerous bases that remain secret). [1] We are number one in armaments sold to the rest of the world (nearly 45 billion from 1997-2001. The next largest exporter of arms during that same period was Russia—17.3  billion). [2] In short, America has rapidly begun to "make a name for itself" as a militarized society whose goal is apparently to extend its hegemony to every corner of the globe.

In the process we Americans have seen a rapid shrinking of our commitment to human rights, and to our own democratic checks and balances. Though it has taken us time to wake up to what is happening, these trends have not been lost on the rest of the world. As one recent commentator put it, "Hard as it may be for Americans to grasp, much of the world no longer sees the US as a force for good." [3] That is how a nation begins to lose its soul when it sets out to "make a name for itself" as a hegemon over the affairs of all other nations. In Madrid, a very senior and rather conservative Spanish diplomat recently put it in this way:

We grew up under Franco with a dream of America. That dream encouraged us to imagine and later to build a different, better Spain. All dreams must fade—but not all dreams must become nightmares. We Spanish know a little about political nightmares. What is happening to America? How do you explain Guantanomo? [4]

Of course, in the current climate, to raise questions like these is to invite the charge that one is unpatriotic. But I feel close to the perspective of Albert Camus who once asserted,

"I would like to be able to love my country and still love justice."

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This morning we have participated, as part of our morning service of worship, in the beautiful rite of dedication.  The dedication of a child is always such a rare privilege.  It is the moment in which we are invited to celebrate together with the parents and godparents, the gift of new life.  But it is also the moment when we are all reminded of a simple, but profound, truth:

None of us is merely the child of specific parents or a specific household. We are also, each one of us, a child—as Kahlil Gibran in his meditation on children with which we always preface the service stated it—a child of  "life's longing for itself."  In more traditional language, we are each a child of God.

To many of us, that thought resonates.  But whether or not you consider yourself to be a religious person, I invite you to reflect for a few moments about the meaning of that phrase, "a child of God," or, if you prefer, "a child of life's longing for itself."

To those of us who take seriously the symbolic importance of that phrase, it suggests, for one thing, that our identity is a far more mysterious and comprehensive notion than any one of us may ever completely grasp in an entire lifetime. And we point to the heart of that mystery when we come to the part that is embedded in every service of dedication. That central moment consists of a question and a deceptively simple response:

What is the name of this child?

This morning we heard the answer:  Isabella De Luca.

At the heart of every ceremony of dedication, or—as in the Christian churches—the rite of baptism, lies this simple yet profound act by which the community of faith witnesses the conferring upon a child of his or her name.  This means, among other things, that we believe the conferring and receiving of a name to have sacred significance. It means, among other things, that our identity, our sense of self—that we signify by a name—comes not from our own efforts alone, but from beyond us.  It is conferred upon us in the same way our name is conferred upon us. And so let us meditate for a few moments on this mysterious notion of "selfhood" that is contained in the idea of a name.  Let us take up Juliet's famous question, "What's in a name?"

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You will remember that Juliet asks her question early in Shakespeare's drama. She has been smitten with love. Unfortunately for her and the prospects of her relationship, the object of that love, Romeo, is a Montague, while she belongs to the family of Capulet—two families engaged in an ancient and bitter feud that makes them sworn enemies to one another.  But love is apparently stronger than this tradition, and the two lovers pursue their affair in headstrong defiance of their families. It is in this context that Juliet cries:

O Romeo, Romeo, wherefore art thou Romeo?
Defy thy father and refuse thy name
Or if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love
And I'll no longer be a Capulet. [5]

It is difficult for us moderns to fully grasp the shock of that sentiment to its original hearers. To a Renaissance audience the idea of rejecting one's name would have constituted supreme heresy. Juliet is advocating that Romeo foreswear the primary source of his identity, as a member of a family. It was by one's family that one was known, and how one knew his or her place within the social order. To do what Juliet suggests would have been like defying the laws of gravity.

Juliet goes on to challenge this orthodoxy by further reflection:  "What's in a name?" she famously asks, and goes on to provide an answer:

That which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet.
So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called,
Retain that clear perfection which he owns
Without that title. [6]

We of course see what she is driving at, and we identify with her struggle.  Even the Elizabethans saw that and sided with her as well. They just had a deeper sense of the conflict to which she bears witness than do we.

"What's in a name?" we ask with Juliet, and we sense in part that she is right.  A name is after all a social convention, a label, that can easily be exchanged for another.  What really counts is the essence of a person—his or her formative qualities, his or her inner integrity.  And yet. . . and yet, here lies the mystery. In what does that essence, that integrity consist?  And why do we continue to connect that essence, that integrity, to the name?  After all we value a person who has established a "good name." And by that we mean something more than a mere label or a social convention.

One way to look at it is this: We start at the beginning of life with a blank slate.  Little by little we construct an identity, a self—for good or ill—much in the way we might construct a palace—brick by brick. But there is another way to look at it. This is the perspective provided by our religious and spiritual imagination and traditions. Our self is not an entity that we construct by our efforts alone. Our self is conferred upon us at birth, much in the way a name is conferred upon us. It is not so much that we construct a self as that we undertake a long and sometime arduous process to discover that self that has been there all along. That also takes effort, and imagination, and patience, and at times, great suffering.

But when we approach the idea of the "self" in this way we have a deep sense that it has a significance far beyond anything that our mere effort alone could account for.

It means that we feel responsible for our life, responsible for our "self," responsible for  our name. And it means that we also feel accountable for our life, our "self," our name as well.  It means that intuitively we believe our deepest sense of self is rooted in something transcendent and ultimately mysterious. Every time we dedicate a child and confer upon him or her a name, we bear witness to this deep intuition, to this second way of understanding what we mean by a "self." We bear witness that our truest "self" is something conferred upon us by some other source, much in the way our name is conferred upon us. Call that source whatever you may—God, Creator, Spirit of Life, Mysterious Other, or even "Life's Longing for Itself." What we imagine is that a true sense of self may only crystallize in relation to a sense of transcendence, in relation, that is, to that or to whom we are ultimately accountable.

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The contemporary playwright Robert Bolt understood this same mystery and explored it in depth through his portrayal of Sir Thomas More in his drama "A Man For All Seasons."  More, who was Lord Chancellor to King Henry VIII was also a devout Christian and the lone person among the king's closest advisors who refused to sign an oath recognizing his right to divorce his queen, Catherine. Henry threatens to execute More on grounds of high treason, but More holds firm. His closest friends and family all beg him to relent, to sign the oath yet keep his private counsel about his true beliefs. In a poignant dialogue with his beloved daughter Margaret, who has made the last appeal to sign the oath, he responds:

When a man takes an oath, Meg, he's holding his self in his hands. Like water. And if he opens his fingers then—he needn't hope to find himself again. Some men aren't capable of this, but I'd be loathe to think your father one of them. [7]

There are two ways to understand what we mean by "the core of our being"—our true self. One is the way of Thomas More and those like him, who believe that a self is a precious gift for which each person must remain ever responsible and accountable. It is this way to which we bear witness every time we confer a name upon a child. The second is the way of self-construction.  It is the way we point to whenever we say a person is out "to make a name for himself." And just as we imply whenever we use that phrase, we suspect that such a person has gone a far distance in losing himself in a dangerous quest for prestige and power over others. Pray let us make the choice between these two ways with true wisdom and humility.

Amen.



[1]   Chalmers Johnson, The Sorrows of Empire: Militarism, Secrecy, and the End of the Republic

        (New York: Henry Holt, 2004),  p. 154.

[2]    Ibid.,  p. 133.

 

[3]   Tony Judt,  "The New World Order,"  The New York Review of Books, July 14, 2005, p. 18.

 

[4]   Cited in Tony Judt,  op.cit., p. 18

 

[5]  William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act 2, Sc, 2, ll.33-36.

 

[6]  Ibid., ll. 43-47

[7]   Robert Bolt,  A Man For All Seasons,  (New York, Vintage Books, 1962), p. 81.

 

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